I was walking along the street yesterday and there was some sudden commotion.
Of course, I took cover.
A few minutes later I peeped to discover that the reason for the commotion was a male dog that was about to mate with a female dog.
I guess it was such an ‘obscene’ scene because the young men who witnessed it chased after the dogs.
What was so wrong with what dogs were about to do? I was lost in thought.
The dogs were just being animals that they are.
Okay, so let’s assume it was wrong for the dogs to do such. How would the dogs know that?
I want to believe those young men were sex starved and the dogs rubbed it in their faces.
It made them angry!!
There are a lot of married men out there who are looking for a bit of action by the side.
They hide under the guise of social media and hookup sites. This is shocking.
Then, there’s the consummate businessman organizing a quickie, “Why don’t you come and meet me at my office after working hours, it’s comfortable there.”
Or the slightly more upscale version “Why don’t we meet for drinks? We can always get to someplace if the mood strikes.”
Talking to the less douchey ones out of sheer curiosity, I’ve found they’re genuinely nice guys whose wives went off sex after the kids were born.
They’ve tried everything they could think of to bring sex back into their marriages to no avail.
For some of them it’s been years without sex, but get this – it’s NOT only the sex they miss.
When you really get them to admit the truth, all they want is the intimacy and affection.
They want to be seen, listened to and cared about – not hard to understand. Every human being needs it.
Sometimes, don’t we all need to be held and cuddled and spooned and taken care of, even if it’s only for a few minutes?
I don’t know a single person who wouldn’t long for a decent hug when life’s getting down.
5 minutes of hugging from a partner can fix anything.
Touching is so important in our lives, why have we forgotten that?
We’ve steadily created a world of touch-starved stressed adults when there’s a very simple remedy.
Instinctively, we all caress and hold an upset child, right? Why not do the same for a frazzled adult?
Why have we trained ourselves to accept that a stressed child just needs comforting, but a stressed adult needs medicine?
Couples, do not get so starved of touch and attention, else your partner will take it in whatever simplistic form they can get it.
Spice up your sex life!!!
If you are not giving it to your partner, someone else probably is!
I love you, I love your health.
Your favourite family physician,