Boye is a successful accountant who has been steadily climbing his career ladder as at when due.
He had got to the point where he felt he was too busy at work to create time for his spouse. He felt she was becoming a bore and a nag who refused to understand his predicament.
Now she is also an accomplished accountant and she complained about how she multi tasks her responsibilities at work and at home.
Being our real man, he knows he is not the only member of the relationship who has a career.
Now as humans we all have career paths; be it as mundane as being a full time husband or full time housewife.
When women enter relationships, we can feel conflicted too. We may worry that we are not spending enough time with our friends, our work, our family; but especially ourselves.
Mr man goes on and on about his job and how demanding it is, like we play ‘ten-ten’ while we are at ours. We do not want men who ALWAYS present work for an excuse.
I was in church the other day and the Pastor suddenly went on to prod the men. He asked when last they took their partners out or got them gifts. The guilty ones went ‘Pastor, e don do o.’
We want our men to shift their stance towards ours. We don’t want self-centred men. We want a ‘His and Hers’ centred man.
Why don’t you take cue today?
I love you, I love your health.
Your favourite family physician,